On taking up space

These days I have begun to make a note of things I would later write on, on the blog. This is one topic I thought of really long ago when I noticed it in a colleague. I have been meaning to write about it since then.

Be warned that this may not go anywhere by the end, I expect interactive comments which actually may help me align my thoughts. 🙂

So, as I was saying, some people (as in their personality) take up a lot of space. They don’t realize how much they are invading the general public space of a social setting (does that make sense?) & how much they might be invading someone’s personal space. Now I sit here & wonder that if this feels uncomfortable to me, someone who is not even a quiet or introverted person around, then just how much more uncomfortable would it be making the shy/introvert people. I see that people are habitual of talking loudly, coming too close while talking or question others without realizing their rudeness. Now if you talk to someone at work about me, you may feel that even I tend to get rude with people, e.g. when I am chasing for something since long, or when i detect lies, but that’s that. I am so conscious of being in someone else’s space physically at work. So, I definitely do not come close while talking etc.

Now where am I going with this? As I said, nowhere really. I would actually like your thoughts to help me get somewhere. But my key point remains that if some of us are so conscious about our work behaviour, then why do some others do not even give a flying f*ck about the invasion they may be causing!

31|Of Regrets and letting it all go

It is absolutely unnecessary to fixate on regrets, as far as I am concerned. I see a lot of people, including myself, going back and forth on the mistakes they have made. Honestly, I not so much because I am not into the habit of wanting to go back in time and change a lot. However, this post is about how much people fixate about their regrets and mistakes. I mean shouldn’t you be rather happy that you are aware about your mistake? So much you can take from that for the future experiences.

Honestly, whatever mistakes I committed in the past, their consequences also I have already bore. Or I am in the process of bearing. So might as well chill. I think all of us need to let it go. If someone asks what would I change by going back in time, nothing really. I would have to really think hard to find something like that. I guess more people can learn from me. 😛